Super Cool Moms

Eileen Maggiore

Eileen Maggiore is the co-owner of Ricmag, Inc., the Riccardo Maggiore Salon. I am a full-time mom and full-time business owner with about 60 employees. I believe in having fun as a family and enjoying the simple moments. I have two major mottos and I have taught them to my children:  “Always look for the positive in everything” and "Believe in yourself – if you think you can you will.”

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Mom Q&A

Did you know 70% of kids don't get the calcium they need? What types of dairy do you give your kids to get their calcium?

They drink milk, eat yogurt and cheese.

What non-dairy sources do you suggest to maintain calcium in one's family diet?

We also drink calcium enriched juice. I sneak spinach into their pasta so that also helps.

how many kids do you have and what are their ages?

I have three children -  they are 10, 8, and 4.

how do you get everyone to bed on time?

We try to stick to a routine.  After school we have afterschool activities, homework, dinner and free time.  After 8:30 we have room time where everyone reads or listens to books on tape (4 yr old) Sometimes the older girls read to the 4 year old.  On school nights lights are out by 9.  On weekends they do not have a specific bedtime, unless they don't behave.  That is the ideal.  However, if I am running late I sometimes don't manage to get them to bed on time.  Bed time used to be earlier.  Now that the girls are older I realized I had to delay bedtime because they did not need as much sleep.  If they behave well during the week, we have family night on Thursday and we watch a tv show together until 9pm.  However they must go directly to bed and lights out immediately on that day. 


 
what is your biggest challenge (currently) with your kids?

My biggest challenge is getting them to listen to me the first time I say something.  I find myself repeating myself often. 

how do you satisfy everyone's picky eating habits?

My younger ones eat or at least taste everything.  My eldest is picky.  I get her to eat vegetables by turning the vegetables into a sauce by cooking them, blending them, pouring the vegetable sauces over pasta and giving the pasta fun names.  They all love it, it is quick, easy and I can make it with any vegetables even spinach. 

what are your cost cutting tips?

When I shop at my local supermarket  I try to buy only what is on sale.   I stock up on the sale items.  I usually don't have to buy those items again till they are on sale again.   I also shop at Costco.  I never thow out food - I always incorporate leftovers into the next day's dinner or lunch.
 

what do you do at work when you miss your kids?

I keep a photo of them at work.  I also have extra pictures in my bag.  My eldest child has a cell phone and I speak to the kids briefly after school.   
 

what do you do with your kids that your mom did with you?

I cook with my children.  I teach them old recipies, passed down from my grandmothers.  I also go through old photos  from when they were children and when I was a child and tell them stories about those pictures. 

do you have any coping mechanisms for when things get really hectic?

I call a friend and we share stories - we usually cheer each other up.  We remind each other what a great parent the other is.  We also remind each other that every parent at one point or another has feelings of inadequacy.  Otherwise I get the children to their rooms early and I watch a comedy or a sitcom. 

how do you stay organized and keep your family organized?

That has become increasingly difficult.  The older they get the more paper we seem to have.  I also have an overwhelming amount of paper for the business. I have finally come up with a decent system. I have a cubby for each child. They put their paperwork for school there. The fourth cubby is for important paperwork that needs to be signed or sent back to school. At the beginning of the school year when we receive the school calendar I put all the holidays and ½ days in my Blackberry. The children each have a homework journal that the school supplies. It helps them stay organized because they put their homework assignments in there and any important events they want to remember. 

what did you make for dinner last night - did you eat together?

Pasta with squash sauce, mixed vegetables, chicken cutlets, and apples.   Yes we did eat together.

what's your favorite thing about being a mom?

My favorite part of being a mother is witnessing their firsts.  First experiences are amazing.  Like the first time they saw a Broadway show.   The first time they went to Disneyworld.  The first time they realized the difference between night and day.  Or when they make connections and start thinking abstract thoughts.  I am overjoyed when I see them enjoying themselves.  I never thought I could experience such happiness by witnessing the happiness of my children. 
 

do you have a funny mom story/disaster to share?

I have so many but recently, after seeing the dentist we learned that my daughter needed to wear a night brace.  I explained to the other two that they were not allowed to make fun of their sister.  My four year old thought for a moment and said, "OK, can I just laugh at her then?"

While we were on our way to a ski trip I was listening to a conversation the three were having in the back seat of our car.  My middle daughter asks the older one,  "do numbers end?"  The elder responds, "no, numbers are infinite."  "What does that mean?" asks the 8 year old. "Infinite means that they never end. You could start counting now and you will still be counting after you die," responds the10 year old.  "You're wrong!"  yells the 4 year old.  "Numbers have to end.  You can't count if you're dead!
 
A few weekends ago we were at the pool.  My four year old got out of the pool frantically and exclaimed "Mom! Let's get out of here! I have to pass gas."  (Those were his exact words.)  I looked around and it was apparent that everyone had heard and was giggling.  I held his hand and walked quickly towards the restroom.  All of the sudden he stopped and yelled, "Never mind!"  I looked at him and tried to walk faster and he yelled, "I said, too late! I don't have to pass gas anymore, I already farted!"  At this point everyone just starts laughing and I turned bright red.  Meanwhile he experienced no shame at all and got back into the pool. 
What's your go to meal that you know everyone will love?

Pasta with broccoli sauce and steak.
 

What do you pack your kids for lunch?

Sometimes a sandwich, sometimes pasta. Fruit with Nutella or peanut butter for dipping.

What do you feed your kids when they are sick?

If they have a cold, soup always works. If they are sick to their stomachs they have pasta with a little olive oil and Parmesan. White rice is another great option.

Mom Tips!

"Limit TV time to one hour a day – kids need to get outside and soak up the sun – it's a great source of vitamin D"

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